He's a dramatic person-yes-but please tell me how to fix this He says i didn't care enought to let him know but it isnt true-i just couldn't get in contact with him and i've explained to him all what my dad has done but still-silent treatment Please help me get my friend back?? Any ideas?? Aquarian confusion by: Anonymous I have an Aquarian man in my life since I was a teenager. We are best friends and love each other very much, we have had a physical relationship off and on and have always maintained the friendship and been able to talk about everything.
He spent the summer with me since he is from another state and now 5 months later, our friendship has changed. We still talk, we fight alot when we never used to fight, he has gotten back in touch with an ex girlfriend that is married and also lives in another state and he won't talk to me about her, tells me it is none of my business, that has never happened before.
He tells me I'm not his girlfriend so why lie to me like he does his girlfriends? He tells me he would never mess with a married woman but in black and white on FB, it is onvious this woman is in love with him and they talk about a future. This is a 31 year friendship, that has seen alot and I just don't really know where to go from here. I miss my best friend! Help by: Anonymous I was seeing this Aquarius guy.
We work together. At first, he was all into me. Invited me to dinner,took me out. Payed for me nails etc. The sex was the best I ever had. I'm a scorpio. I recently went on vacation and he would call me telling me he missed me every day but when I got back everything changed. We got in a argument and I expressed that I really liked him but I never said I loved him.
Now he ignores me. We only talk buisness. We have to communicate because we work together. The last meeting I told him I needed to talk to him about buisness he agreed and we went to lunch. After the lunch I ask him why he was different with me I wanted to be with him like we always have but instead he just thanked me after the kiss and left me feeling cold. I want to call him but I don't. If we talk I try to keep it buisness.
Did I do something wrong??? Was it because I expressed my feelings to him??? How can I win him back? When I see him I melt. I feel like I give in.
Maybe I should have acted cold in my last meeting. He always would take me and we would have passionate sex. Why did he just kiss me instead???? He said "he's never met a girl like me and never wants to let me go". It went very well the first week than I noticed he started backing off. Which hurt a lot. I had no idea what I did wrong. The next week we saw each other he acted as if every thing was normal.. I played it cool. I tried to ask him why he's been quiet but all he said was that he's been busy.
So we ended up just making out. He told me I was beautiful. That week we didn't talk at all. He didn't message me. I messaged him late wednesday just to see what he's been up to. I see him last friday at a party and he wanted me so bad.
He kept calling me to come and sit with him, wanted to cuddle, wanted to make out, kept hugging me. I ended up puking on the couch and I think he got mad at me. He ended up leaving me with my friend and texted me at am to ask where I am.
And that's the last time I heard from him and its monday today -. I am a saggitarius. I am friend with an aquarius man form the past 10 months. We became friends through chatting. I started liking him more than a friend but did not confess.
I prefer being his best friend first. But since the past few weeks he is ignoring me. Starts a conversation if I talk first or else ignores me and since past few days completely ignoring my texts. Don't know what to do? When we first met I feel hard for him I m a Scorpio. He told me after a month that I blew my chance because I wanted to get to know him.
After about 2 weeks of not communicating he messaged me. He invited me over so i went. We r still friends n he invites me over here n there but recently he has increased me coming over. I can't tell if he is interested in me or just playing with me.
If you have such a deep relationship with an Aquarius, you must know him better and believe that his ignorance is temporary. Also, remember the last time you talked to him and notice what possibly went wrong there. Instead, do these following tips about what to do when An Aquarius ignores your texts or calls:. We also will call him on the phone a hundred times because we feel so panic, anxious, and desperate.
As a result, that guy will just ignore us for more. He might think we are crazy. Mostly, if you keep texting him in the desperate needy lines. What to do when an Aquarius man ignores your text? Nothing but patience. You might do something that makes him feel annoyed so he needs some space to feel okay again. Just be patient. If he is ready to talk to you, he will talk to you. And you also need to figure out what went wrong.
You have sent him one text message, maybe asking something, apologizing, updating some news, or anything. You can do something else than just sitting in your room staring at the phone. Do finish your work and enjoy the day. If you suspect him not texting you back because he is mad, not interested with you, busy, or other lame excuse, just send one message then go about your day. You can only be worried about him not texting you if he looked sick or mentally ill the last time you saw him.
An Aquarius man likes a playful, independent, lively girl, and the one who got her shit together. So yeah, throw away your phone and get a life. Tell him you are busy and he will chase you. We just met online through facebook. He made me fall in love with him. He said we had this kind of connection that is reallly him love me. He even admitted that he is always dreaming of me at the first months while we were just talking and not yet in a relationship and too shy to say it later.
He said loves everything about me. We constantly doing videochat after work so we can see each other often. We had long distance relationship for 6 months now and everything is going smooth. We are both professionals and sometimes we are busy at work but we are always find ways in communicating with each other. We also planned to meet each other soon this April but unfortunately this virus thing happened.
He is a frontliner. And i do understand the pressure he has at work until this fisrt part of May he began to slow things down. It is not easy being a frontliner. Even if the texts messages are few, he still says he loves me. Then something happened. He was put in a home quarantine for 14 days. Once in a while he text me back that is when i only text him. And the words are so few.
It is driving me really crazy because i worried that something might just happened. But when i checked in their workplace online it says there that there in no more health worker on quarantine. So why the heck he just stopped talking without saying anything.
He does not even consider what would i think and feel. I have sleepless nights with that 5 days and trying to get an answer from him waiting patiently for his message. I have just over stepped my boundaries and told him some feelings I have been holding back he told me we are done being lovers now which is tearing me apart because I believe we are soul mates please give some advice.
He is driving me crazy , its hard for me to focus on anything. This can make the issue far worse than it needs to be. If you want to discuss the issue, do so as calmly as you can to diffuse the situation. He probably doesn't realize the impact that his actions have on you. Point out to him that you are getting hurt by his ignoring you and see what he says. If an Aquarius man is ignoring you, it can be a good idea to go back to basics in your relationship.
Think back to when you were first dating. What was it that you did to keep things fun between you? Try to reignite that spark by keeping things simple and just enjoying getting to know each other. Try thinking about what you really want from your partnership and whether a guy who can consistently ignore you will be able to make you happy long term.
Your feelings are just as valid as his and you need to provide them with an outlet. Therefore, choosing any one of the above courses of action is fine as long as you get what you want from the relationship too. Ignoring an Aquarius man is a tricky thing to do as his subsequent reaction can be quite different, depending on what Aquarian character traits are strongest within him. He may start chasing after you but he may also withdraw into himself even further. Some Aquarian men hate to be ignored.
Depending on which of their Aquarian character traits are strongest will have a massive bearing on whether they will tolerate being ignored. Depending on what characteristics and qualities are strongest within them will have a big bearing on how they deal with someone ignoring them.
The silent treatment may make them ask you directly what is wrong, but it may also make them detach from you and become more independent of the relationship. An Aquarius man can be tricky to tell if he is no longer interested in you.
This is because, just because he may be ignoring you, he may not be thinking about ending your relationship. He may just be doing it to have some needed timeout. The best way to tell is to ask him directly. If you are dating an Aquarius man who is ignoring you, it can be a very upsetting situation to cope with. Try using one of our suggestions above to deal with the issue as proactively and constructively as you can. Ultimately, however, you need to have confidence in yourself to ensure that your partnership will be happy over the long term.
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